First off, congratulations and welcome– you made it to university. Some may call it the beginning of adulthood, but I call it "the phase", because you still get to have so much fun— but in there, somewhere, there are ‘responsibilities' to take care of. So, buckle up, and prepare for a new life ahead!
Be aware and stay connected
One way to easily adjust to your new-found life is to be aware of the things and happenings that go on around you. This way you will be well-informed and know your left from your right.
Don't be afraid to ask questions because that is something that really helped me.
Whenever you feel uncomfortable asking random people questions, just ask yourself: "What's the worst that could happen?" And really it is nothing. People don't bite, so there is absolutely no reason to be scared. You will get to meet new people and socialize with other students.
By staying connected, not only do you build your connections and form new relationships that will hopefully last, you also establish your network. And as they say: "Your network is your net-worth".
So, the next time you're asked something like: “Hey, are you going for the trivia night at the pub?”, your response should be, “Yeah totally, I'll see you guys there!”
Have a routine
Telling you to have a routine might sound cliché, but it definitely has more benefits than drawbacks.
Having a routine helps you plan out your entire day and you will know exactly what to do and when to do it.
You will not be left wondering what you have to do when there are probably a million and one things already on your mind.
Write things down—you will forget
Learn to write things down or you will forget—it is inevitable. Even if it's not a full day routine planned out to the exact time, little steps can help you stay organized.
You may think, "Oh this is a very important thing for me to do and there is absolutely no way, I repeat—no way, that I am going to forget to do it."
You will forget.
So, get into the habit of writing things down, either on your cellphone or on a planner as soon as you remember them, so you do not end up feeling lost and overwhelmed when everything starts to pile up.
It will also keep you organized and responsible. I mean, who doesn't like the feeling of being a responsible adult?
As a university student, being independent comes with a lot of responsibilities and bills. So, you must learn to budget your spending. Eat out occasionally and not three times a day, or your money will be gone.
Remember: you do not need to have what everyone else does just because it is trending. Do you really need trainers that glow in the dark or four colors of the exact same shirt just to have variety? Yeah, I didn’t think so.
Always buy things that you absolutely need and not things that you want. It's important to learn the difference.
Think of every single purchase you make as an investment.
Be prudent in your spending so when the bills come, you can pay for them. But, if you are struggling financially, please be sure to contact your Financial Aid office.
Attend lectures—take notes and listen
The main goal of you coming to university was to gain knowledge and acquire skills, so why skip lectures? Depending on the type of person you are, pick lecture times that are suitable and comfortable for you. If you are an early bird and can handle morning lectures, go for them. If you are a night owl and feel more productive at night, pick the evening lectures.
When in lectures, take your own notes because no one understands you like you do. You don’t have to write down every single word that the professor says, just make sure you are taking notes on the most important topics. On the flip side, it is great to put your pen down occasionally and listen.
Pay attention to the information being delivered to you. Trying to grasp all the information and writing fast does not help you. Your fingers won’t thank you and you don’t get an award for being the best note-taker.
Let there be balance between notetaking and listening— because at the end of the day, the only thing that matters is that you are understanding the course concepts that are being taught.
Find your Zen—give yourself time to adjust
To be able to adapt and thrive in any environment, you must be healthy, both physically and mentally. Take time to relax. Take a step back when things start to feel overwhelming.
Find a place you can go to relax or just de-stress. A place where it is just you and your thoughts disconnected from the world.
Believe it or not, your brain sometimes needs a break. Not just when you sleep, but also throughout the day.
Everything needs time. Find your Zen and be at peace. Don’t wear yourself out; and remember to breathe.
Explore your surroundings
Walking more will help you discover new places which may even become your favorite spots to study or relax.
You could also get some exercising done in the process. Now tell me that's not a win-win situation!
Get to know your professors
Knowing your professors has its benefits. Not only do you build your student-professor relationship, but you could also get advice and insights on your field of study from your professor.
Some professors may even share experiences with you and give you great tips for studying. That way you’ll know what to look out for in their course.
They can also give you recommendations in the future and sometimes help you connect with other professors and faculty members.
When certain opportunities pop up, you will be one of the first people they will reach out to because of the bond you have with them. You want to be one of those people, so be sure to connect with them!
Yes— high school was fun and all, but be prepared for a totally different ball game. University is fast-paced and challenging; finding your balance between work and leisure is key. You can do it!
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